就演唱會摟腰與搶麥事件論尊重與禮儀 - S.H.E

By Joe
at 2017-09-07T12:43
at 2017-09-07T12:43
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此為本人對爭議事件的一點看法,但版主擔心推文越來越激烈,已拉封鎖線,此篇勿再回
應,想要討論請移駕下一篇,如果願意了解本人認為當事者不妥的行為,歡迎您繼續往下
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很久沒在SHE版發文了
想就版上現在沸沸揚揚的事件進行討論
其實在看完演唱會後
就一直有話想說
這幾天看到大家對某篇文章進行很熱烈的討論
才決定打這篇文章
以下先幾點聲明
1.
我並沒有看那篇目前被噓到XX的文章
只簡單地看過底下的留言
因為我覺得一個不懂得尊重的人的心得
即使寫得再好也不值得我花時間看
所以下面文字僅就我演唱會的所見所聞發表一點個人想法
2.
我現在對SHE已經進入老夫老妻狀態
在演唱會的時候
也沒有對被他點上台的人產生任何羨慕嫉妒恨的情緒
只是很單純的覺得他們很幸運
所以以下的文字並不是出於嫉妒心理
9/3演唱會時
師姐點了四位幸運的粉絲上台
本來我也是滿心歡愉的在看馥甄跟粉絲互動
(他那天心情真的很好)
兩位女生也很幽默把馥甄逗得很樂
結果兩位男士的舉動讓一場完美的演唱會留下了一點遺憾
首先先就搶麥的這件事情來講
不知道版上有多少人有參加9/3的演唱會
搶麥那位先生他其實是在馥甄還對著麥克風講話的時候
就冒然把頭湊過去
馥甄當下其實是有被他的舉動嚇到並且後退的
試問
如果今天有個陌生人(尤其還是異性)突然靠近你的臉
會有人覺得這沒什麼嗎?
接著是版上的那位摟腰男士
不知道您是否還會上來甚至看到這篇文章
但是您9/3的行為甚至事後的回文態度
讓我很想告訴您
您的行為是不對的、是不尊重人的、是無禮的
https://goo.gl/5a72qu
這篇是去年六月時女版的文章
探討的是女生是否能接受很熟的男性友人摟腰的動作
結論您可以自己點進文章去看
多數的女生連連「很熟」的異性友人都無法接受了
更何況是一個素昧平生的異性陌生人
https://goo.gl/6MXaKv
(這篇是中國論壇的文章,不喜者勿點)
這篇文章討論的是合照時男生摟女生的腰或肩膀
下面討論的網友也多認為摟腰這親密舉動不適合出現在非戀人關係的人身上
https://goo.gl/ZWi8Sx
這是10年的新聞
是一名男主管對女部署摟腰與摟肩
雖然事後獲判無罪
但新聞也提到
在新聞平台自己做的語音民調中
有七成三的受訪者認為「搭肩摟腰算性騷擾」
今天即使被摟腰的人不是馥甄
只是一個我平常在沒關注的藝人甚至路人
我都覺得這件事情是極為不妥與無禮的
我也曾經有跟韓星單獨合照的經驗
但在做任何動作前
我都有用著破爛的英文詢問意願
(而且合照的韓星跟我同性別)
擅自觸碰對方身體任何部位的事情
其實是侵犯了對方對身體的自主權
是極其不尊重人的一個行為
是我的話羞愧都來不及了
更不要說是用沾沾自喜的語氣到網路上炫耀了
想請問摟腰的這位男士
您在看完以上的連結文章
是否還將9/3摟到馥甄的腰這件事情視為幸運
今天大家的噓文
有些人抱持跟我同樣的看法
也有些人只是「嫉妒噓」
但我想表達的是
這件事情根本不該被嫉妒
因為任何人都不應當作出相似的舉動
這已經不是粉絲在面對偶像時無意識的舉動了
而是尊重他人這個應該時時刻刻放在心上的觀念被忽略了
最後
回歸粉絲的身份講點自己的想法
除了我上面所提到的人與人之間的尊重、禮貌
一個粉絲對偶像真正的愛
應該是在意偶像的感受大於自己能得到的福利
至於偶像的感受我們當然不能妄自猜測
所謂己所不欲勿施於人
那我們就將心比心的去換位思考
「異性在合照時在未經同意的情況下觸碰我們身體的任何部位,我們會有什麼感受」
就能避免很多自己過激的行為
最後的最後
愛
要謙卑
更要尊重
--
只要妳想到
妳不是自己一個人
就會變得勇敢
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